The “almost relationship” is a close relative of the “friends with benefits” arrangement, a social bond gaining in popularity and one that is supported, as some experts suggest, by technology and the noncommittal “window shopping” atmosphere of dating apps. In the almost relationship there is a strong connection between two people that does not evolve into a “real” relationship and remains “unpredictable and uncertain.” The almost relationship is usually “gradual and casual,” a mixture of lingering in the friend zone along with one person approaching the other as merely a “back burner” romantic prospect. There is increasing attention on how to spot the warning signs of the almost relationship, which include sporadic communication cycles, not meeting a person’s significant friends or family members, and tension around or avoidance of having “the talk.” The almost relationship can be emotionally and psychologically damaging, ultimately “torturous” and difficult to resolve given the complexity of how to “move on from a breakup that never happened.” In the next virtual meeting of the Relationship Group Seminar on Saturday, July 16, 2022 (11:45 AM to 1:00 PM), we will explore the dynamics of the almost relationship and consider ways to resolve it.

*Registration Directions: If you would like to attend the next virtual meeting of the Relationship Group Seminar on Saturday, July 16, 2022, 11:45 AM to 1:00 PM, please RSVP to me at 949-338-4388 or jt@jamestobinphd.com no later than Thursday, July 14, 2022. The fee is $25.00 (payable before entering the virtual meeting) and informed consent for participation in this telehealth event must be completed prior to the seminar. Please note that the Relationship Group Seminar is psychoeducational in nature, not therapeutic, and does not constitute psychotherapy or counseling.