Intimate romantic relationships among adults are surprisingly vulnerable to devolving into other social structures. A common example of this occurrence is when partners fall into the roles of parent and child. Often, this is a gradual, insidious process that unfolds unconsciously, i.e., not intentionally. Initially, there may be some degree of comfort as partners play into the familiarity of a developmental paradigm each knows so well. Yet, over time, the dynamic promotes an atmosphere of inequality which then negatively impacts communication, sexual and emotional intimacy, and the general viability of the relationship.  In the next virtual meeting of the Relationship Group Seminar on Saturday, December 18, 2021 (11:45 AM to 1:00 PM), we will discuss how the parent-child dynamic emerges in adult romantic relationships. Our focus will be on the early warning signs that indicate the formation of this problematic dynamic. We also will consider the various factors that determine who in the relationship is more likely to take on the parent vs. child role. Finally, we will discuss strategies for how to avoid this dynamic offered by relationship expert Idit Sharoni in her podcast episode “Are You in a Parent-Child Relationship with Your Spouse?”

*Registration Directions: If you would like to attend the next virtual meeting of the Relationship Group Seminar on Saturday, December 18, 2021, 11:45 AM to 1:00 PM, please RSVP to me at 949-338-4388 or jt@jamestobinphd.com no later than Thursday, December 16, 2021. The fee is $25.00 (payable before entering the virtual meeting) and informed consent for participation in this telehealth event must be completed prior to the seminar. Please note that the Relationship Group Seminar is psychoeducational in nature, not therapeutic, and does not constitute psychotherapy or counseling.