The tension between traditional models of masculinity and contemporary societal notions of gender and role identity emerges as a salient issue among most of my male psychotherapy patients. Men are confronted with a persevering pressure to conform to gender stereotypes (the “Man Box”), while simultaneously being encouraged to expand their identity across numerous dimensions typically associated with femininity, including emotional expression, relationships, and parenting. Commentators have described the inherent opportunity for men to formulate new, personalized notions of what it means to be a man, yet in the context of a proliferation of mixed messages about what is expected in the home, workplace, and community. A panel discussion hosted by Esther Perel entitled “The Masculinity Paradox” captures the complex dynamics related to patriarchy and men’s capacity for intimacy, sexual health among men, and “double standards” impacting men in their relationships. In the next virtual meeting of the Men’s Group Seminar on Saturday, December 19, 2020 (10:15 AM to 11:30 AM), we will explore the many paradoxes confronting the modern man and how they are negotiated.

Registration Directions: If you would like to attend the virtual meeting of the Men’s Group Seminar on Saturday, December 19, 2020, 10:15 to 11:30 AM, please RSVP to me at 949-338-4388 or jt@jamestobinphd.com on or before December 17, 2020. The fee is $25.00 (payable before entering the virtual seminar) and informed consent for participation in this telehealth event must be completed prior to the seminar. Please note that the Men’s Group Seminar is psychoeducational in nature, not therapeutic, and does not constitute psychotherapy or counseling.